Not Every Man Wants A Dime Piece...

 "I am so tired of being single. It's like all the good men are taken, and the rest are either; dead, broke, gay, or in jail," complained Low-esteem.

"Girl, let's go out and start meeting people because we ain't gonna meet a man by sitting around the house," said her best friend Dime Piece.
 
   Dime Piece was Low-esteems best friend going on 10 years, and she always wanted to give advice on the relationship do's and dont's as well as what type of man would make a good mate. Dime (nick name for Dime Piece) noticed since the beginning of their friendship, Low-esteem hooked up with men that were not relationship material and wanted nothing more than a woman who was committed to giving up the coochie. A few of Low-esteem ex's only came around for one thing which caused her to often use her bomb sex as a means to keeping a man. Dime was quit promiscuous herself but she didn't have to work that hard to get a man's attention nor did she have to put in a lot of work to keep it. This was the very reason she felt that her advice on catching a man was helpful.
    Dime was a bi-racial woman mixed with Black and Hispanic, big hazel brown eyes, jet black- long wavy hair, and an hour glass figure. Dime Piece was most definitely a man magnet. Low-esteem didn't quit have those features but she was pretty in her own way. She was pleasantly plump (as it's referred to on most dating sites), short brown hair, and round dark brown eyes. Low-esteem was a darker skinned Black woman who did not see herself as being beautiful. She'd received compliments all the time about her beauty and the uniqueness that she was packaged in, but that wasn't enough for her to see beauty in the mirror. She too wanted to be a man magnet! Low-esteem was so focused on the attention she wasn't getting that she didn't see the nice wholesome men that was checking her out. Sure, Dime turned heads everywhere she went and was possibly the cause of a few fender benders, but she had the look that most men who are obsessed by video vixens go for. This is not to say there is anything wrong with a man desiring a woman that looks like a video model; because they are very exotic and beautiful women; but Low-esteem had her own category that she was in.
  Low-esteem didn't realize the men that made the least noise and were the least obvious was checking her out. See, these men were equally as attractive and successful as the men that broke their necks for Dime, but they kept a low profile. Why? These men know that when you make a lot of noise and a big fuss over something it will cause many others to seek what it is that you're making a big fuss about. He doesn't want other men drooling over the woman that he desires to be his.These men know that the quieter it's kept, the better chance for him to creep up on the desired woman and take a chance on asking her out without much competition. He sees the value in this woman. He knows that she is a keepsake. Once she is secure in his arms and he knows that she is ready for his love; he will yell it to the entire world. I found one! I found one! And she is all mine...

   So, ladies, the moral of the story is this: Each and every woman has her own attractiveness that gets the attention of different kind of men. You don't have to cause traffic jams with your beauty, so therefore, don't compare yourself with other women. You may be getting scoped out by men who sees the significance in keeping a low profile so that he can come sweep you up from behind without a lot of distraction. He doesn't want you turning your head in every direction to see who is whistling, blowing, or calling for your attention. He wants your head in ONE direction; and that direction is looking only at him. That's how special you are and he knows that!

Happy Happy New Year!!! It's the year 2012 and so many of us have our new years resolutions, and plans, and goals that we will accomplish this year. That's great!


Now before we jump into the new year looking forward to all these wonderful things to happen, let's look back at this same time last year and try to remember our resolutions, and plans, and goals. How far have you come? Did you keep those resolutions; and did you seethose plans through, and accomplish those goals? Hopefully your answer is yes. But if the answer is no-what will truly make this year such a great year; such a productive year; or such a successful year? 

Just because it's a new year doesn't mean "Alas, I get a new start," because EVERYDAY you get a new start! January 1, 2012 is just a date. Have your mind made up that no matter the new year or mid year...you have a new day everyday. Make everyday count. Let 2012 speak for itself because it will have a story to tell based on how you live everyday.