Thursday, December 1, 2011

20 Ways A Woman Can Display Her Confidence

  1. Be comfortable with the way you are at this very moment. {{If you need to lose a few pounds, just work at it while enjoying the more plump you. Be comfortable in the skin your in.}}
  2. Smile. {{There is something about a smile that says " I love me, I love life, and no one can steal my joy right now.}}
  3. Compliment other beautiful women. {{Don't be intimidated by other beautiful women..love them.}}
  4. Step out of the spotlight. {{No value is taken from you when you allow someone else to get a moment to shine. Your turn will come again...Be at peace with that.}}  
  5. Listen to constructive feedback. {{Don't take offense when receiving constructive feedback. Take from it what you need and grow...if nothing is needed from it then respect the person for sharing their thoughts with you.}} 
  6. Closing your ears to gossip. {{A confident woman won't take delight in gossiping about others, or listening to it. She would rather uplift with her words and listen to encouragement.}} 
  7. Participate in or do things that may display the not so perfect you. {{It's not always about trying to impress. Be confident and understand you're not perfect. Don't avoid things just because your not that good at it and don't always do things that you are excellent in.}} 
  8. Reading while waiting at appts etc...rather than texting or talking. {{One of the greatest ways to display confidence AND inner beauty is by demonstrating that you use your spare time to edify yourself.}} 
  9. Share some of your trials and past struggles with those who could benefit from hearing it. {{People may see the you that you are now, but it took hard work to get there. Share that story. Don't worry about being judged for your past mistakes and failures. A failure is just a delayed success anyway.}} 
  10. Surrounding yourself with other women who are where you want to be. {{There's nothing wrong with having a mentor or seeking guidance. Don't avoid being around those who are where you want to be. Show your confidence by seeking them out and taking notes because you know your time is here... "Anybody seen Oprah around" LOL/ JK.}} 
  11. Take yourself to lunch, dinner, or a movie and have a blast. {{Need I say more. Do your grown woman thangy thang.}} 
  12. Aim for classiness and not sexiness. {{The voluptuous lady beside you may be getting attention because she let it all hang out. But your classiness is a STRONG display that you are confident even though you may not get ALL the attention, but you get the right kind of attention.}}
  13. In heated arguments/ debates, let the loud mouths get the last word while you save your energy for something positive. 
  14. Taking action on your dreams. {{Each day...by taking a step forward toward your dream shows that you are confident it will become a reality... Doubt season is over. The I think I can pill has been flushed down the toilet. The I'll get to it one day pie has been eaten (ain't no more)..Faith season is here!!!}} 
  15. Laugh at your own mistakes. {{Don't beat yourself up or be hard on yourself when you've made an error.. Allow God's peace to give you comfort in knowing that the error/mistake you made is going to be used towards His plans for you. Your mistakes are valuable assets, so giggle a little when you've made an oopsy. It's all good.}} 
  16. Write a letter (not call or text) to a loved one or old friend and share with them what they meant/mean in your life. {{This speaks volumes. Make their day! Allow that confidence and love in you to pour out on paper. This will leave a lasting impression on the life of someone special to you.}} 
  17. Trusting God in trying times when everyone around you is in a panic.{{The root of your confidence should be intertwined with the promises of God. Trust Him and what He says in His word. Display your confidence and give Him the glory!}} 
  18. Demonstrate your uniqueness even if it's contrary to what's accepted in society. {{If God has me on a mission, and society doesn't accept what He packaged me with (personality, look, dialect, interests, talents etc...); I refuse to fall back. I have no desire to be a clone in order to satisfy the standards of society. My uniqueness step as I step and I thank God for it.}} 
  19. Speak highly of the good Lord and all He hath doneth for you. {{Society may not want to hear about Jesus BUT I can't contain and suppress my excitement for what He has done for me. A confident woman will use wisdom and knows how to be delicate when sharing the goodness of God with others; In a way that shouldn't draw negative attention.}} 
  20. Just be yourself. {{You are strong. You are unique. You are special. You are here for a purpose. You're needed. You influence. You encourage. You nurture. You motivate. You give. You forgive. You understand. You cherish. You love. You pray. You hope. You desire. You dream. You...You...You...You are beautiful. I love you so much.}} 

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