8 Reasons a man wants a confident woman

       8 Reasons a Man Wants a Confident Woman

          Ladies, the very popular quote holds truth: Behind every good man is a great woman: and if you’re in a relationship with a good man, then you know exactly how to interpret this statement. Guess what? Men understand this statement also- and maybe even more than women.
The main quality that a woman must possess in order to be great is– Confidence. That’s right, the good old ‘C’ word. When a man has a vision and he realizes his greatness, he will eventually want a woman who has what it takes to help bring life to that vision. He’ll begin to look for a lover, a friend, a soul mate, a supporter, a partner- his wife! He’ll not only need a woman that can hold him down but he’ll want a confident woman who can lift him up. Here are 8 reasons a man wants and needs a confident woman.

1. A confident woman will be very patient and understanding while her man is trying to bring his vision to life. When a man is passionate about his vision he may put in long hours until he cracks the surface. His woman will make sure their surroundings are in order so that he may put quality focus on the plan. A woman who lacks confidence will feel rejected and take things personal when her man has to spend long days working and/or traveling. A woman without confidence will spend more time focusing on what her man isn’t doing right rather than understanding that he’s developing.


2. A confident woman will feel secure in her relationship because she understands that her man is doing what he’s doing for his family. When a woman is secure in her relationship she won’t be tempted to give up the gushy goods to someone else. She will have the ‘us’ attitude and her validation will come from her self-worth. A woman without confidence will have the ‘me’ attitude because her focus is on being validated by her man or even another man.

3. Confident women take pride in their appearance. Nice hair, a little make-up from time to time, nice properly fitting clothes, pedicure and manicure when necessary, and a regular workout routine to keep herself healthy are all ways for a woman to take pride in her appearance. When a woman looks good, she feels good, and when she feels good - that woman wants to make her man feel good in every way.

4. There is something about a woman who has brains to go with her beauty. A confident woman reads and educates herself on a regular basis. Toxic television shows, useless conversations, negative friends, and no interest in learning new things, are NOT often associated with confident women. A confident woman looks for new things to learn and is eager to bring them to her man.

5. A confident woman knows how to tap dance in the rain. This means that she is able to face adversity and most challenges without completely becoming the ‘B’ word. The word that rhymes with…uhhh…I think you get it. When a man is grinding and trying to make a dollar out of 15 cents he will definitely face some challenges along the way. His woman should be able to hold it together so that he can keep a clear head.  He has no time to constantly calm her down and stay focused on what he needs to do.  

6. A confident woman knows the power of submission. Being submissive does not mean giving your power away, it means the opposite. Hey, we didn’t make the rules we just need to follow them. The man is the head and has a major role in the family. He has to provide, protect, and pro create with his woman. The responsibility of a good man is major and his woman shows her love by respecting his role and submitting. She knows that her man was built with a back strong enough to carry 2 tons of bricks (figuratively). As he carries her on his back, she wipes his sweat and gives him water. Therefore he can see where he’s going and stay replenished so that he may endure to the end.

7. But she also knows how to be firm when necessary. A confident woman will not be intimidated by her man, nor will she be passive. She sees herself in him and will not want to see him defeated. In a loving way she will inform him when her heart is heavy and recommend that he  turns from doing something he will regret. A good man will listen.


8. Overall, a man wants a confident woman because her strength along with her loyalty to him is what keeps him going.